I’m Kristy Darby, and I’m the Certified Spinal Flow™ practitioner behind The Sacred Center of Healing.
I support women who are overwhelmed, exhausted, or carrying long-standing stress in their bodies — not by fixing them, but by supporting their nervous system in returning to regulation.
My work is grounded in Spinal Flow™ — a gentle, physical, nervous-system-led practice that prioritizes safety, pacing, and the body’s innate intelligence. I don’t diagnose. I don’t promise outcomes. And I don’t ask the body to perform or prove anything.
My role is to create the conditions that allow the body to respond in its own time.
Why I Practice This Way
For many years, stress was so normalized in my own life that I didn’t recognize it as stress. My body was functioning — until it wasn’t. Over time, physical symptoms, pain, and exhaustion became impossible to ignore. I tried to manage them the way many people do: by searching for solutions, explanations, and relief.
What ultimately shifted things for me was not another attempt to fix my body — it was finally allowing it to feel safe. As my nervous system experienced safety, my body began to respond. Not dramatically. Not all at once. But clearly.
That experience fundamentally changed how I understand the body, healing, and my role as a practitioner. It taught me that the body doesn’t need to be pushed into change. It needs the conditions that allow change to happen.
How I Work
Spinal Flow™ uses light, non-invasive touch at specific points on the sacrum and/or cranium to signal safety to the nervous system. From there, the body leads. Some people notice physical shifts. Some notice emotional release. Some notice clarity, calm, or a sense of ease they didn’t realize was missing.
None of these are goals. They are responses.
I practice in small group settings intentionally. The nervous system does not regulate through attention — it regulates through environment. When safety becomes ambient, the body no longer has to stay alert.
What Guides My Practice
I believe the body is intelligent — not fragile.
I believe healing is not about becoming someone new, but about remembering who you were before survival required so much effort. And I believe that when people are met with honesty, clarity, and respect for their autonomy, their bodies respond differently.
This work does not rely on dependency, force, or belief.
It relies on capacity.
An Invitation
If you’ve tried many approaches and still feel overwhelmed, guarded, or disconnected in your body — you’re not failing. Your body may simply be protecting you in the only way it knows how.
You don’t need to decide anything right now.
You’re welcome to reach out, ask questions, or explore whether this work feels supportive for you.